Why men fail with women and attraction

by Rion Williams

There are many reasons why men are failing with women and

dating today but I’d like to look at it from an angle that you may

not have thought about before.

When it comes to the game of attraction, many men will start

becoming needy, clingy, overwhelmed, etc. this means they’re

giving up their OWN personal independence (during that time

because it all that she sees and knows about him) and showing

signs of dependency on a woman.

When your emotions start to take over you have to understand

where they are coming from and where they fit into the reality

of things. Many men fail because they just can’t control their

thoughts and physiological response to a beautiful woman.

Just because you’re interested in her doesn’t mean she’s interested

in you.

Women are world class body language readers (they were born

to know what to look for and how to respond) and can see any

sign of nervousness when you are around them.

Any uncontrollable emotional response you have with women

upfront (or later on in the relationship when you only see her

‘wonderful’ side and ‘fall for her’) means that you are losing

your own power, strength and independence (already confused

and muddled because of growing up being hidden from the truth).

When this happens it means that she CANNOT be attracted to you.

So all the nice guys out there that try to put their ‘best’ foot

forward (and not really being their true self) are really failing

and stepping on their own feet. They’re not being honest with

themselves and their intentions.

Not to mention that many women today don’t want to be courted

and feeling like they owe this guy a committed relationship, they

want to be free and let things happen more naturally.

Many guys get so nervous and self-conscious around the women

they desire that they don’t realize there’s nothing they could say

to salvage it.

She already lost interest the second she saw him yet they’ll still

try to learn pick-up lines in a desperate attempt to succeed to the

point their devotion to it becomes unnatural.

All men were born with the inherent power to please women.

And it’s all done on a natural level that’s really more important

to her than money (except gold-diggers). And she has to be

able to trust the man to BE a man.

Women are waiting for the ‘real men’ (who respect her and her

body without saying a word) because there are so few left


Just have to get in touch with your natural power as a man

to reach the natural part of (all) women.

This power is greater than your own independent ‘personality’

or your social character and it’s the power that matters when

it comes to succeeding with women and giving women what they


Become a man who is ‘comfortable in his own skin’ and maintain

that congruency and you’ll find that women will treat you differently

and actually notice you.

Her interest means everything because she is the one who chooses

you or not (as a response to your character or approach) but as a

man you will lead the way.

The nice guy will ‘fail’ in attracting women because he’s not

inspiring an instinctual or natural response in her to him.

Is it his fault for growing up in a forced reality which

covers up his real power and effectiveness? No.

Does he have to take accountability for his actions and

future? Yes. Understanding these things will allow him

to move forward into a whole level of success that he

has only dreamed of.

I like to see things this way:

You can’t go with a fat, ugly chick just as much as she can’t

go with a man of low character.

Women today love sex just as much as men but they expect a guy

they can trust first and if you’re showing signs of dependency

or that you’re too interested in her and would change your ways

to be with her, it ain’t going to work out.

The good news is that women will KNOW when you are that man

they want.

To prevent failure, just become a man of high character across

the 3 areas that matter (natural, independent and social) and

you will have women wanting to be with you and not giving up

the chance to meet you.

The whole game turns around at that point and other guys will

continue to fail because they didn’t understand the big game

of attraction and how to apply it themselves to be more

naturally themselves.

Be what women want by truly becoming the man you were supposed

to be instead of having to trick them into something and you’ll

be able to attract women nonverbally.

All men have this power and potential despite their money or

looks. It’s all about how she feels when she’s around you

and that ALL comes down to your character and who you are.

So I recommend to prevent failure and have success with

women and dating!

Rion Williams is the celebrated author of ‘Mens Guide

to Women’ and is the first person to quantify and put

in writing ‘what women want’. His free newsletter and

downloadable attraction philosophy eBook can be found

at http://www.modelmagnet.com

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